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Hi, i have 3 forums with around 500-20,000 members and there are notiffication emails sent to new users or when someone reply topic.
Once per 2 months or so i may want to send newsletter to members base. My shared hosting has low limits.

So im looking for SMTP server details, looking to rent SMTP.
hostname
port
login
password

This SMTP should be specialised service so emails sent fromt hat IP is not treated as a SPAM by mailbox providers!

It can be handy if i can order some simple SMTP package which will include like 50,000 emails sent monthly + 200 hourly something like that.. Do you know something which can fit my needs please? I can afford something like $5-$9 monthly.